You Need to Be Emotional

I to think “being one of the boys” made me more desirable.  The classic “chill girl,” cool to be around, easy to love. 

But, You need to be fucking emotional. 

Men do not want chill, cool and easy to love. They want a woman capable of embodying who she is, the fire, the flood, the serene and the creativity of her femininity. They want her energy, versatility and the spectrum of her emotionality because it is the polar of him, and in polarity we create magnetic fucking s-xual attraction

You don’t need to deny your depth and storm thinking it will repel all men, It will repel the right men. 

If he avoids the immense energy of a woman, he will not be able to hold you. So why bother with someone you need to suppress yourself with in order to be loved in the first place?

You will explode with hunger because he won’t be able to f-ck you the way you need to be f-cked. 

That is the danger in masking your femininity and stifling who you are emotionally, physically, spiritually, sexually. 

No more pent up pain or tension. 

No more moments where you hold your voice in when it’s wanting to be let out. 

No more stifled laughter or minimized pleasure. 

Own who you are. 

Embody the strength of your femininity, your ferocity, emotionality, immense ability to love and exude vibrance and pleasure. 

Don’t seek love from a place that denies you who you are.

Seek love from being unapolegitically you.