How To Eat Pussy

So you want to go down on your women and make the very earth she lies on shake? Eating pussy is truly an art and the finer details come as you learn the little things that really make her go wild. The secret lies in you wanting to utterly ravish (dare I saw ruin?) your women into blissful oblivion. Open up her body by slowly awakening it and building up the intensity until she is utterly begging for you.

Start With Everywhere BUT There

Women need their body's turned on before you even go near that sweet sweet spot that will open all the doors to sexual bliss. Grab (or pull) her hair, kiss her lips, bite her neck, tell her the dirty things you've wanted to do to her all day. Women want to feel your hands all over their body, desiring every fucking inch of her. She wants to feel how much you want her.

Kiss down her neck, play with her nipples, draw on her skin, lead the experience so she can fall totally into you and surrender. As her body warms up and opens, begin to trace the area (with your fingers and/or tongue) between her legs that is starting to beg for you. 

Find the Clitoris

As you use the tip of your tongue to trace the inseam of her leg make your way to the clitoris. Start easy, slowly, maybe kissing the area or using the tip of your tongue and moving it  around in circles. Begin to build up momentum and play with different techniques, paying attention to her body and moans to see which ones give you the most response. Go from the point of your tongue to your full tongue. Switch it up from light to hard pressures, always gradually building up the momentum. 

Don’t Concentrate All Your Efforts On Her V

If you can keep the rest of her body engaged as your tongue goes to town between her legs you will be upping your pussy game big time. Play with her nipples, massage her breasts, trace your free hand all over her body, her hips, stomach, thighs before bringing it down between in her legs and sliding a finger (or two or three -  reading her response) inside and working the serious magic of the tongue and fingers together. If she isn't super responsive to your fingers inside of her keep them focused and moving on the rest of her body. 

What What in the Butt?

This is the one spot that will probably vary the most for women. A sexy and non invasive way to ease into this (if you haven't already discussed) would be to slowly trace your fingers towards the direction of her butt. If she is responsive and expressing delight then continue your way a bit further and play with the area,  always being mindful of her queues. If she is tensing up and becomes uncomfortable come back down to home base. Some women absolutely die for a finger up there and for others it's a turn off. If you're unsure, have a conversation about it when you're not in the throws of passion. 

The Finisher

As you continue to build the pace and intensity of your tongue and fingers, watch her body respond and tense up until she's reaching that sweet, obliterative climax that's about to make the very ground your entwined on shake. It's  however important to note that not all women orgasm! Or that sometimes it takes time to learn the specifics of your women and for her to surrender into pleasure, so don't worry if she doesn't orgasm right away! Enjoy every bit of the journey and don't focus solely on orgasm as the be-all end-all of your sexy romp together, just because there was no orgasm doesn't mean it wasn't amazing.  The more curiosity and excitement you bring to bed the more you will learn about the exact spots, touches and licks that drive her wild. 

Here's to putting it down and making your women shake.