The Heart & Womb Connection

The first time I really understood the heart womb connection I was in bed with a lover who said something honest to me that made me, in a sense feel rejected. Although it wasn’t really a rejection of me, it was something I didn't want to hear and I felt my heart tear itself away behind its guard.

Sex immediately became uncomfortable, like my pussy closed off the moment my heart did, which he immediately seemed to sense.

Between talking and entangling he slowly opened me back up, gently running his hands over my body, kissing my neck. I breathed into my heart, trying to come into the space of my emotional discomfort.

And then finally my energy gave way and opened. The discomfort in my yoni was gone as fast as it had arrived and the connection, orgasm and surrender became one of my most intense sexual experiences.

It was a visceral, being taken from a heart guarded stance and gently opened by my lover - having them feel into me and slowly knead out my closure.

It was amazing, being with someone who was so attuned to my energy they sensed the shift in me and without losing his stance or integrity in the matter gave me the thing I needed to open back up.

But what truly astounded me was how connected our heart and pussy really are. This experience magnified this truth, they open and close together, they breath together, feel together. Your yoni responds to your heart and your heart responds to your yoni.

When we learn how to feel and listen to this connection we can open the walls we barricade our heart behind, we can practice deeper and deeper surrender, we can honour what we actually need and want in the moment.

To learn the language of your pussy and the connection it has with your heart is to come into intuitive sexuality, it will guide you in surrender or tell you if you are resisting it. To listen is to come into the truth of your heart and your deepest desires.